Take Up Your Cross and Follow Me

24 Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. 25 For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. 26 For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?” – Matthew 16:24-26 ESV

23 And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. 24 For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it. 25 For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself? 26 For whoever is ashamed of me and of my words, of him will the Son of Man be ashamed when he comes in his glory and the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.” – Luke 9:24-26 ESV

24 “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. 25 Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. 26 If anyone serves me, he must follow me; and where I am, there will my servant be also. If anyone serves me, the Father will honor him.” – John 12:24-26 ESV

Jesus told His followers to “make disciples of all nations” (Matthew 28:19 ESV). The phrase “make disciples” comes from the single Greek verb mathēteuō. which can also be translated as “to teach, instruct, or to disciple.” Jesus was not expecting His followers to literally “make” or manufacture disciples but to teach all who chose to accept His message of salvation. That is why Jesus went on to instruct His disciples to teach those individuals all the commands He had spoken in His earthly ministry.

The 12 men whom Jesus called were commonly referred to as His “disciples,” from a related Greek word, mathētēs, which is a noun and describes “a learner” or “pupil.” James, Andrew, Peter, John, and all the others had accepted Jesus’ invitation to follow Him.

While walking by the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon (who is called Peter) and Andrew his brother, casting a net into the sea, for they were fishermen. And he said to them, “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” Immediately they left their nets and followed him. And going on from there he saw two other brothers, James the son of Zebedee and John his brother, in the boat with Zebedee their father, mending their nets, and he called them. Immediately they left the boat and their father and followed him. – Matthew 4:18-22 ESV

After this he went out and saw a tax collector named Levi, sitting at the tax booth. And he said to him, “Follow me.” 28 And leaving everything, he rose and followed him. – Luke 5:27-28 ESV

At a word from Jesus, these men willingly abandoned their former lives and committed themselves to becoming His disciples or students. They each made the fateful decision to spend their lives learning from this itinerant Rabbi named Jesus. They knew little about Him or His ministry but were willing to walk away from their families, friends, and their primary means of livelihood just to hear what He had to say.

In one sense, a disciple is a follower, but for Jesus, following was not enough. He expected His disciples to learn and grow. During His earthly ministry, Jesus had hundreds, if not thousands, of followers. They were attracted by His miracles and enamored with His teachings. But as time went on, the lessons Jesus delivered became increasingly more complex and difficult to understand. As the time of His death drew closer, the more intense and seemingly obscure his teachings became. At one point, He told His followers, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me shall not hunger, and whoever believes in me shall never thirst…I have come down from heaven, not to do my own will but the will of him who sent me” (John 6:35, 38 ESV). The Jewish religious leaders in the crowd took exception with His claim to have come down from heaven, stating, “Is not this Jesus, the son of Joseph, whose father and mother we know? How does he now say, ‘I have come down from heaven’?” (John 6:42 ESV). They were following Him but were unreceptive to His teaching.

Discerning their unbelief, Jesus upped the ante and proclaimed, “I am the living bread that came down from heaven. If anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever. And the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh” (John 6:51 ESV). This rather cryptic and confusing comment left the religious leaders further perplexed and put out. Jesus went on to talk about eating His flesh and drinking His blood, imagery that repulsed His critics and confused His disciples. One of the 12 responded, “This is a hard saying; who can listen to it?” (John 6:60 ESV). But rather than rebuking His disciples, Jesus explained that His words were “spirit and life” (John 6:63 ESV). There were things they did not yet understand and their views of Him were clouded by false expectations and faulty concepts concerning His mission. They believed Him to be the Messiah but were confused by the nature of His ministry and messages. He was not acting like a Messiah. His ministry lacked the hallmarks of a revolutionary, Rome-conquering mission that would put the kingdom of Israel back on the map. Jesus knew that some of His “followers” were having second thoughts and said, “There are some of you who do not believe” (John 6:64 ESV). The 12 remained by His side, but “many of his disciples turned back and no longer walked with him” (John 6:66 ESV).

Following Jesus requires commitment. It entails a willingness to listen, learn, and grow even when the lessons make no sense or the circumstances surrounding His calling don’t turn out as expected. Jesus later used a parable to describe the fickle nature of those who follow Him but eventually turn away. He spoke of four different types of soil on which the “seed” of the gospel falls.

“The seed on the rocky soil represents those who hear the message and immediately receive it with joy. But since they don’t have deep roots, they don’t last long. They fall away as soon as they have problems or are persecuted for believing God’s word.” – Matthew 16:20-21 NLT

Failure to establish roots results in no nourishment. The seed sprouts but there are no nutrients to feed and foster growth. Roots imply commitment and a desire to grow. It is a picture of reliance upon the life-giving nature of Jesus’ message. He later told His disciples, “Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me. Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing” (John 15:4-5 NLT).

Jesus went on to describe a second type of soil that initially appears to benefit from the sowing of the seed but produces no fruit.

“The seed that fell among the thorns represents those who hear God’s word, but all too quickly the message is crowded out by the worries of this life and the lure of wealth, so no fruit is produced.” – Matthew 16:22 NLT

Faithful-looking followers can end up being fickle and fruitless. Their initial enthusiasm for the gospel can wain as the distractions of life increase and Christ’s call to commitment becomes more difficult. But according to Jesus, true disciples produce fruit.

“When you produce much fruit, you are my true disciples. This brings great glory to my Father.” – John 15:8 NLT

Jesus would later tell His 12 disciples, “I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce lasting fruit, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask for, using my name” (John 15:16 NLT). That is what it means to make disciples. The goal is fruitfulness and faithfulness, not simply a growing number of followers. Disciples are committed. Disciples continue to learn. Disciples keep abiding in Christ even when the going gets tough and the trials of life make it difficult to hold on.

Being a disciple of Christ is not easy. That is why Jesus said, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me” (Matthew 16:24 ESV). It requires sacrifice, self-denial, and the daily putting to death of the old self. Paul put it this way:

My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. – Galatians 2:20 NLT

He told the disciples in the local church in Galatia that their lives should bear the fruit of the Spirit, but to do so they would need to recognize that their former sinful natures had been crucified with Christ on the cross.

Those who belong to Christ Jesus have nailed the passions and desires of their sinful nature to his cross and crucified them there. – Galatians 5:24 NLT

After Jesus' resurrection and ascension, the disciples would grow to understand that their decision to follow Jesus must be accompanied by a willingness to commit to die to self and live for Christ. But as they lived, they would face the very real possibility of dying on His behalf. This is something Jesus warned them about.

“Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life. If anyone serves me, he must follow me; and where I am, there will my servant be also. If anyone serves me, the Father will honor him.” – John 12:24-26 ESV

During His days on earth, Jesus repeatedly foreshadowed the days when His disciples would suffer as He did, facing ridicule and rejection but with the knowledge that their reward in heaven would be great.

“What blessings await you when people hate you and exclude you and mock you and curse you as evil because you follow the Son of Man. When that happens, be happy! Yes, leap for joy! For a great reward awaits you in heaven. And remember, their ancestors treated the ancient prophets that same way.” – Luke 6:22-23 NLT

Most of the Old Testament prophets delivered their messages to unrepentant audiences who not only refused to listen and learn but chose to kill the messenger. Yet these men carried out their assignments obediently and resolutely, even when facing the threat of martyrdom.

Discipleship requires commitment and a willingness to walk a path that is often unpleasant and unattractive to most people. It can be a lonely experience because few are willing to pass that way. There’s an old adage that states, “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.” But followers tend to give up or simply get out of Dodge when the going gets tough. When the heat gets turned up, they head for the exits.  Jesus described the path of discipleship as a “narrow way” that is rife with difficulties but that leads to life.

“You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way. But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it.” – Matthew 7:13-14 NLT

A more contemporary and equally familiar adage comes to mind: No pain, no gain. While there is a cost to discipleship, it is well worth any sacrifice we might have to make. Jesus made this point clear when He addressed a somewhat boastful pronouncement from Peter. The disciples had just witnessed Jesus’ interaction with a young man who wanted to know what he needed to do to gain eternal life. Jesus, knowing that the young man was wealthy, stated, “Go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me” (Mark 10:21 NLT). Hearing Jesus’ words, “the man’s face fell, and he went away sad, for he had many possessions” (Mark 10:22 NLT).

Perplexed by this exchange, Peter spoke up and self-righteously declared, “We’ve given up everything to follow you” (Mark 10:28 NLT). Peter had watched the wealthy young man let material possessions keep him from following Jesus and he wanted to remind the LORD that he had sold out to be a Christ follower. But while Jesus agreed, He gave Peter a powerful lesson in spiritual economics, proclaiming that Peter’s return on investment would be greater than he could ever imagine. Whatever he sacrificed in this life would be repaid in full in this life and in the life to come.

“Yes,” Jesus replied, “and I assure you that everyone who has given up house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or property, for my sake and for the Good News, will receive now in return a hundred times as many houses, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and property—along with persecution. And in the world to come that person will have eternal life.” – Mark 10:29-30 NLT

Peter and the rest of the disciples were now part of a much larger family consisting of people from all walks of life who shared a mutual relationship with God as their Father. And, one day, they would all enjoy the ultimate reward of eternal life and unbroken fellowship with their Savior and their Heavenly Father.

Discipleship is costly but priceless in terms of its long-term benefits.

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