Love God

28 And one of the scribes came up and heard them disputing with one another, and seeing that he answered them well, asked him, “Which commandment is the most important of all?” 29 Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 30 And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ 31 The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” 32 And the scribe said to him, “You are right, Teacher. You have truly said that he is one, and there is no other besides him. 33 And to love him with all the heart and with all the understanding and with all the strength, and to love one's neighbor as oneself, is much more than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices.” 34 And when Jesus saw that he answered wisely, he said to him, “You are not far from the kingdom of God.” And after that no one dared to ask him any more questions. – Mark 12:28-34 ESV

When Jesus was confronted by a Jewish religious leader and asked to name the most important of God's 613 commandments, He replied quickly and succinctly, quoting from the Book of Deuteronomy.

“Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.” – Deuteronomy 6:4-5 ESV

When God originally dictated this commandment for Moses to record, he added the following directives to stress its importance:

“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.” – Deuteronomy 6:6-9 ESV

Not only was the command to love God non-optional, but it was also to be all-encompassing, influencing every area of Israelite life. Love for God was to be taught, modeled, emphasized, and elevated to a place of highest priority. But love for God was to be far more than just an emotion or sentimental feeling of affection. God explained that this love was to be accompanied by reverential fear, a commitment to His ways, selfless service, and a life of humble obedience to His will.

“And now, Israel, what does the Lord your God require of you, but to fear the LORD your God, to walk in all his ways, to love him, to serve the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul, and to keep the commandments and statutes of the LORD, which I am commanding you today for your good?” – Deuteronomy 10:12-13 ESV

Years later, when the people of Israel had conquered most of the land of Canaan and were enjoying the inheritance God had promised them, Joshua reminded them of this very command.

“But be very careful to obey all the commands and the instructions that Moses gave to you. Love the LORD your God, walk in all his ways, obey his commands, hold firmly to him, and serve him with all your heart and all your soul.” – Joshua 22:5 NLT

In the latter days of his life, Joshua delivered a lengthy and impassioned speech to his people, encouraging them to finish conquering and occupying all the land God had given them. He was passing the baton to the next generation and committing them to keeping the command to love God by carrying out His will for their lives. 

“For the Lord has driven out great and powerful nations for you, and no one has yet been able to defeat you. Each one of you will put to flight a thousand of the enemy, for the LORD your God fights for you, just as he has promised. So be very careful to love the LORD your God.” – Joshua 24:9-11

It would seem that love for God is inseparable from willing obedience to God. Jesus emphasized this symbiotic relationship between devotion and deference when He told His disciples, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 12:15 ESV). The words, “I love you” ring hollow if they are not accompanied by tangible demonstrations of dedicated devotion. That’s why Jesus provided an addendum to His response to the religious leader, adding a second command that was to be considered just as important as the first.

“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” – Mark 12:31 ESV

Love for God and love for others were to be indistinguishable and inseparable. This distinction was meant to shock the distinguished gentleman who posed the question. He was a scribe, a member of a well-respected group of learned men who were experts in the Mosaic Law. They were sometimes called lawyers because of their encyclopedic knowledge of God’s commands and their ability to provide interpretation and adjudicate disputes concerning the application of the laws. But these men were judgmental and hypocritical. Jesus regularly exposed their false piety and thinly veiled hypocrisy.

“The scribes and the Pharisees sit on Moses' seat, so do and observe whatever they tell you, but not the works they do. For they preach, but do not practice. They tie up heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on people's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to move them with their finger. They do all their deeds to be seen by others. For they make their phylacteries broad and their fringes long, and they love the place of honor at feasts and the best seats in the synagogues and greetings in the marketplaces and being called rabbi by others.” – Matthew 23:2-7 ESV

They claimed to love God but looked down their noses at anyone who failed to live up to their exacting standards. Jesus was unsparing in His disdain for these arrogant, self-absorbed “shepherds” of Israel. He boldly declared, “Outwardly you look like righteous people, but inwardly your hearts are filled with hypocrisy and lawlessness” (Matthew 23:28 NLT). In another confrontation between Jesus and the Jewish religious leaders, He accused them of lacking a love for God.

“You search the Scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life; and it is they that bear witness about me, yet you refuse to come to me that you may have life. I do not receive glory from people. But I know that you do not have the love of God within you.” – John 5:39-42 ESV

He would later expand on this accusation by stating, “If God were your Father, you would love me, for I came from God and I am here. I came not of my own accord, but he sent me” (John 8:42 ESV). Jesus would later clarify His point by stating, “Whoever hates me hates my Father also” (John 15:23 ESV).

The command to love God appears simple enough, but Jesus exposed how difficult it really is. Anyone can claim to love God, but their words will fall short if the evidence of that love is unapparent. That is why the apostle John exposed the blatant hypocrisy behind false expressions of love for God.

Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. – 1 John 4:8 ESV

If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother. – 1 John 4:20-21 ESV

The New Living Translation renders verse 21 this way: “If we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see?” The point seems to be that vocal expressions of love for God are not enough. Telling God you love Him means nothing if there are no demonstrable expressions of that love. We can’t see God or demonstrate our love for Him in personal ways. In other words, it’s impossible to wrap your arms around the Almighty and physically demonstrate your love for Him. You can’t buy Him gifts to prove your love. But you can love those who have been made in His likeness and bear His image. When we love others, we are loving God. When we selflessly sacrifice our well-being for the sake of others, we are speaking God’s love language.

Love is impossible without knowledge and awareness. Ignorance and distance render love ineffective. Familiarity fuels affection. The more we get to know God, the deeper our love for Him will grow.

“To love God we must know him. God would not be honored by groundless love. In fact, there is no such thing. If we do not know anything about God, there is nothing in our mind to awaken love. If love does not come from knowing God, there is no point in calling it love for God. There may be some vague attraction in our heart or some unfocused gratitude in our souls, but if they do not arise from knowing God, they are not love for God.” – John Piper, All That Jesus Commanded

Our ability to love God is directly tied to our understanding of His love for us. John put it this way: “We love because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19 ESV). When we understand His undeserved and unmerited love for us, we can begin to return that love by loving those around us. Our gratitude to God shows up in gracious acts of mercy, kindness, compassion, and love to all those who bear His image.

But it all begins with a growing knowledge of God and His indescribable, unfathomable love for us, as demonstrated in the selfless sacrifice of His sinless Son on our behalf.

But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. – Romans 5:8 NLT

This is how God’s love was revealed among us: God sent His one and only Son into the world, so that we might live through Him.  And love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. – 1 John 4:9-10 BSB

Love for God must be tangible, not just vocal. God demonstrated His love for us by sending His Son to die for us. He didn’t just express His love, He proved it through His actions, which cost Him dearly. And the better we understand God’s love for us, the easier we will find it to return that love in ways that gratify and glorify Him. That is why the apostle prayed that Christ’s disciples would have the power to understand the love of God so they could return it in acts of selfless service to others.

…may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God. – Ephesians 3:18-19 ESV

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